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Chapter 30

The Training of Children[a]

Whoever loves a son will chastise him often,
    that he may be his joy when he grows up.(A)
Whoever disciplines a son will benefit from him,
    and boast of him among acquaintances.
Whoever educates a son will make his enemy jealous,
    and rejoice in him among his friends.
At the father’s death, he will seem not dead,
    for he leaves after him one like himself,
Whom he looked upon through life with joy,
    and in death, without regret.
Against his enemies he has left an avenger,
    and one to repay his friends with kindness.

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Footnotes

  1. 30:1–13 Sound discipline (which would include physical beating) and careful education of children correct self-indulgence and stubbornness, prevent remorse and humiliation, and bring to parents lasting joy and delight, prestige among friends, jealousy of enemies, perpetuation and vindication of themselves through their offspring (vv. 1–6). Lack of discipline and overindulgence of children bring sorrow and disappointment, terror and grief (vv. 7–13).