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Warning About Adultery

My son, pay attention to my wisdom.
    Listen to my words of understanding.
Be careful to use good sense.
    Watch what you say.
The words of another man’s wife may seem sweet as honey.
    Her words may be as pleasant as olive oil.
But in the end she will bring you sorrow.
    She will cause you pain like a two-edged sword.
She is on the way to death.
    Her steps are headed straight to the grave.
She gives no thought to life.
    She does not know that her ways are wrong.

Now, my sons, listen to me.
    Don’t ignore what I say.
Stay away from such a woman.
    Don’t even go near the door of her house.
If you do, you will give your riches to others.
    And the best years of your life will be given to someone who is cruel.
10 Strangers will enjoy your wealth.
    And what you worked so hard for will go to someone else.
11 You will groan at the end of your life.
    Then your health will be gone.
12 Then you will say, “I hated self-control!
    I would not listen when I was corrected!
13 I would not listen to my teachers.
    I paid no attention to what they taught me.
14 I have come very close to being completely ruined
    in front of a whole group of people.”

15 Be faithful to your own wife.
    She is like your own well of water from which you drink.
16 You wouldn’t drink from streams
    flowing in the city streets or squares.
So be satisfied with your wife,
    not those outside your home.
17 These things are yours alone.
    Don’t share them with strangers.
18 Be happy with the wife
    you married when you were young.
She gives you joys
    as your fountain gives you water.
19 She is as lovely and graceful as a deer.
    Let her love always make you happy.
    Let her love always hold you captive.
20 My son, don’t be held captive by a woman who takes part in adultery.
    Don’t hold another man’s wife.

21 The Lord sees everything you do.
    He watches where you go.
22 An evil man will be caught in his evil ways.
    He will be tied up by his sins as if they were ropes.
23 He will die because he does not control himself.
    He will be held captive by his own foolishness.

Warning Against Adultery

My son,(A) pay attention to my wisdom,
    turn your ear to my words(B) of insight,
that you may maintain discretion
    and your lips may preserve knowledge.
For the lips of the adulterous woman drip honey,
    and her speech is smoother than oil;(C)
but in the end she is bitter as gall,(D)
    sharp as a double-edged sword.
Her feet go down to death;
    her steps lead straight to the grave.(E)
She gives no thought to the way of life;
    her paths wander aimlessly, but she does not know it.(F)

Now then, my sons, listen(G) to me;
    do not turn aside from what I say.
Keep to a path far from her,(H)
    do not go near the door of her house,
lest you lose your honor to others
    and your dignity[a] to one who is cruel,
10 lest strangers feast on your wealth
    and your toil enrich the house of another.(I)
11 At the end of your life you will groan,
    when your flesh and body are spent.
12 You will say, “How I hated discipline!
    How my heart spurned correction!(J)
13 I would not obey my teachers
    or turn my ear to my instructors.
14 And I was soon in serious trouble(K)
    in the assembly of God’s people.”(L)

15 Drink water from your own cistern,
    running water from your own well.
16 Should your springs overflow in the streets,
    your streams of water in the public squares?
17 Let them be yours alone,
    never to be shared with strangers.
18 May your fountain(M) be blessed,
    and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.(N)
19 A loving doe, a graceful deer(O)
    may her breasts satisfy you always,
    may you ever be intoxicated with her love.
20 Why, my son, be intoxicated with another man’s wife?
    Why embrace the bosom of a wayward woman?

21 For your ways are in full view(P) of the Lord,
    and he examines(Q) all your paths.(R)
22 The evil deeds of the wicked ensnare them;(S)
    the cords of their sins hold them fast.(T)
23 For lack of discipline they will die,(U)
    led astray by their own great folly.(V)

Footnotes

  1. Proverbs 5:9 Or years